The Motherhood Process

06: Finding Your Starting Point: Overcoming Overwhelm with Simple Systems

Autumn Akins Episode 6

In this episode, we’re tackling the overwhelm that comes with building systems at home. If you’re feeling stuck or unsure where to begin, you’re not alone! I’ll walk you through practical steps to get started with manageable routines, even if you’re feeling paralyzed by the options. Together, we’ll explore the mental roadblocks that often hold us back, the emotional toll of overwhelm, and why finding your starting point is key to making lasting changes. By the end, you’ll feel empowered to take the first small step toward more peace and order at home.

What You’ll Hear:

  • The Paralysis of Not Knowing Where to Start:
    Why the endless options for routines can lead to decision fatigue, and how to move past it with simple steps.
  • The Emotional Toll of Overwhelm:
    Insight into the guilt and frustration many moms feel when trying to “have it all together” and tips for handling these feelings.
  • Finding Your Starting Point:
    Practical advice on identifying your biggest pain point and choosing one small, manageable area to focus on first.
  • Tips for Consistency Over Perfection:
    How to build routines gradually, keeping expectations realistic and prioritizing progress over perfection.

Key Takeaways:

  • Start Small: Choose one manageable system, like meal planning or a simple chore routine, and begin there.
  • Acknowledge Your Emotions: Recognize the emotional impact of overwhelm and give yourself permission to approach systems in your own time.
  • Consistency Matters More Than Perfection: Keep showing up for your routine, and remember that systems are built gradually.

Free Resource: Time Audit Tool

Want help finding your starting point? Download my exclusive Time Audit tool to identify your biggest time-wasters and focus your energy on what truly matters. Get the free tool at autumnakins.com/reclaim.

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